After the ceremony, we headed back to our house for a chili bar that included my homemade chili, nachos & cheese, hot dogs and all the fixin's (cheese, sour cream, lettuce, tomatoes, onion, etc). It turned out very well! I was surprised how much people ate! We went through 2 packages of hot dogs, 2 bags of nacho chips and almost an entire crock pot of chili! People seemed very satisfied with lunch which makes me happy. I've been wanting to do a chili bar for awhile and yesterday was the perfect event and the perfect Fall day for one.
Part of Adelyn's baptism involved writing her a letter that we then read to her on stage. I did the writing and Steve did the reading. It was very hard for me to write this letter as I kept thinking about how to make it similar to Lily's. In Lily's we talked about my fertility and pregnancy problems and how Lily was a miracle baby straight from heaven into our arms. Because those issues remained the same, I thought I would write a similar letter to Adelyn. I tried and tried and tried. But it all seemed..........so..........forced. I kept saying I wanted the same but different for Adelyn's letter. But then one night, just a few days before the letter was due, I prayed and asked for guidance in writing it. I prayed that God help me write what was in my heart. And then it came to me. The same but different isn't the right way to go. Adelyn is a different child and deserves a different letter despite the previously mentioned similarities. From there on out, it was relatively easy. The following is that letter:
As we look back on the past 6.5 months, we feel so blessed that God has entrusted us with such an amazing gift. He loaned you to us to help raise and mold into the person he envisioned you being. Even though you’re just a baby, that person is already shining through. You are sweet and kind and loving. You amaze us with your willingness to share your love with others whether it is by a smile, open mouth kiss, a coo or your unending want to snuggle. You touch the lives of so many people; family, friends, neighbors and even people on the street with your happiness & innocence.
Just like us, God has loved you before you were even born. But while we have hopes and aspirations for who you will be, He has a plan. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
There is no doubt that our Lord is going to use the light that already emanates from inside you to do something extraordinary. You can do so much and be so great as long as you follow the road that God has paved for you. Always listen to Him and let Him guide you along your pathway in this life. It won’t be easy as you get older and we all falter at
times but remember that this family as
well as God are always here for you to help you find your way back.
So it is on this day, that we recognize the gift our Lord has bestowed on us. We show our gratitude and acknowledge the responsibility that rests in our hands. Most of all, we start the journey with you that the Lord planned before you were even born. We know that one day you’ll have to make the choice to and grow on your own but we will pray that we have given you a strong enough root system to do so – roots that start here on your baptism. Roots that not only come from us but from your God Parents, Rod & Sara as well as all of your family.
Adelyn, today, wearing a dress made from your mother’s wedding gown, which your sister was also baptized in as a symbol of the love you come from, we return you to the Lord and ask that he blesses you. And we ask that he have his hand in your life as well as this family so that we may lead you down a path that is blessed with love, grace and an eternal relationship with God
Mama & Dada
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